Rosanna's Picks
Books, wear, and everyday things picked to go with what Rosanna teaches. Read the description, decide for yourself.
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The plain-English book on attachment styles. Useful when you want to understand why some people pull close and others pull away.
See it on Amazon →A therapist's practical guide to saying what you need, with examples you can use the same day.
See it on Amazon →Decades of relationship research turned into habits. The source of the Four Horsemen you'll see in The Standard.
See it on Amazon →For couples stuck in the same fight. Explains what's usually underneath it.
See it on Amazon →Behavioral science applied to modern dating, from apps to the decision to commit.
See it on Amazon →The researcher behind self-compassion explains how to be on your own side, especially after a hard ending.
See it on Amazon →A short read on letting go of who you think you're supposed to be.
See it on Amazon →A step-by-step book for the first weeks after it ends. Pairs well with the 30-Day Recovery Plan.
See it on Amazon →Wear & everyday
Her lines, made to wear. "Someone who wants you finds Tuesday afternoon."
Journals, date-night ideas, and small comforts for the hard weeks.
The whole system
The Standard turns all of this into what to say next: 112 scripts, a 30-day recovery plan, and more.